No more suicide for any reason

A confident person can never have a reason to commit suicide in their life

A confident person can never have a reason to commit suicide. There is no room for supporting or showing sympathy toward suicide.

The reasons cited for the suicide of a person who gained attention yesterday – none of them, in my view, were sufficient to justify such an act.

☘ Loneliness cannot be a reason for suicide. In today’s extreme capitalist world, everyone is alone and no one has time for anyone else – that’s normal. In fact, the advantage of loneliness is that you won’t have to bear the burdens or responsibilities of family or relatives, and you can live your life with complete freedom. Learn to enjoy solitude. Sometimes, loneliness opens up many opportunities in life.

☘ Many people commit suicide due to poverty. Being born poor is the fault of one’s parents, but dying poor is one’s own fault. With effort, poverty can be overcome through honest means.

☘ Trouble with financial dealings? Friends betrayed you over money?
Lending money to friends is a huge mistake. If possible, help friends by giving money unconditionally, but don’t lend it. When doing business with friends, follow written agreements and joint bank accounts. Don’t hand over your hard-earned money out of shame or trust – if you must, follow proper legal procedures. And if a friend has swindled you out of millions?

Become so economically or mentally wealthy that, after being cheated, it feels like someone drank a glass of water from your ocean of wealth. But never give the fraudster a second chance.

☘ In Bangladesh or the Indian subcontinent, a person over sixty is considered old. Kick that notion. Sixty is when real youth begins. It’s the age to party, pursue art, sports, music, dance, and love. It’s the age to travel the world and enjoy the fruits of life’s labor. If you think of yourself as old because of your age, you’re dying a little every day. If you fall in love, live-in, or marry at sixty, society will gossip, and trolls will mock you on Facebook. Who cares? You have to be happy in your own way. What does society do for you? Why should their gossip or trolling matter? Even if a twenty-year-old marries a sixty-year-old with mutual consent, it’s their choice—their right to decide. What others say is irrelevant.

☘ Never give your entire life for your children. Once your child turns 18, encourage them to study, train, and earn money. No job is too small. Don’t buy unnecessary gadgets just because your child demands them, only to feel sad in old age. Even former U.S. President Barack Obama’s daughters worked in restaurants after turning 18 to learn how to earn. Don’t mentally cripple your child by saying, “This job isn’t for our family.” Because of this toxic mindset, many remain unemployed for years, drowning in despair. This makes your child dependent on you, and in old age, you’ll only be able to say what you did – not escape your helplessness.

☘ Instead of depending on family or society, depend on yourself. Learn to think that every person is different—some may take responsibility for others, some may not, but no one is obligated. So keep your time, money, and resources for yourself. Plan your future and support your adult children accordingly. In many countries, parents charge their children for babysitting their grandchildren. You may think this is inhumane or odd, but they’ve faced many realities to reach this point. There’s no reason to consider it inhumane.

☘ Imagine you fall ill suddenly in old age. Those around you aren’t trained to handle your condition. They don’t understand your needs, and they’re too busy to give you time. So a quality retirement home may be the best option—where trained staff can care for you. You can socialize with like-minded, same-aged friends and stay cheerful. Even in old age, you may want to watch a hot movie or have juicy conversations – you won’t get that in a family setting.

Many people in our country think the concept of retirement homes is terrible. In reality, it’s not. I don’t know if we have quality retirement homes in our country, but those in developed countries are like heaven for the elderly. Governments in developed nations provide pensions, allowing seniors to live well. Even if you want them to stay with family, they won’t. Many go to Thailand, Africa, Indonesia for long stays and fulfill their desires. This isn’t a joke.

You have to be well. Rather than worrying about what society thinks, it’s more important to find a way to be happy without infringing on others’ rights. Look at Mr. Sefuda – he’s alone in a foreign land, living happily in his own way. Many are out there – on the streets, in shops, at home alone, or hiking mountains as travelers. When we expect too much from others, we stop expecting anything from ourselves. Escaping emotional dependency is a success. Life may lose a bit of its red hue, but you’ll avoid much pain and add your own pink or green. So feel emotions, but avoid addiction to them.

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‘Having sight but no vision is worse than blindness’ – Helen Keller

Eyes, ears, tongue, nose, skin – are all five of your senses active? Take a good look. Still feeling hopeless? Sitting in despair over not being successful? Then hear the story of someone whose three out of five senses didn’t work. She was blind, deaf, and mute. Do you know what she did? She was a writer, politician, lecturer, social worker, and traveler. She lost sight, hearing, and speech at just 19 months due to a severe illness. She was the first blind, deaf, and mute person to earn a bachelor’s degree. She traveled 40,000 kilometers and set records. Her name was Helen Keller. She knew nearly nine languages and could understand songs by placing her hand on a singer’s throat.

And now, if we think about ourselves – how does it look? For lack of something, or due to minor obstacles, we often give up. A sense of bitterness toward life begins to grow. But if we think about Helen Keller even once, she overcame thousands of challenges and accomplished so much that people will remember her for a lifetime. So where exactly is your obstacle to success? Is it truly an obstacle – or is it your lack of confidence that’s the real barrier? Therefore, starting today, reject self-destructive laziness and despair, and begin building a confident life.

[Helen Keller, Pic Credit: Wikipedia ]